know, back talking, craziness that happens, validation of our love, our commitment to each other. >> if you can get that in a shorter sound bite. >> make sure you tell them-- make sure you push them around and tell them what to say. >> make sure-- no, no, please, feel free. >> executive produce what is going on in every brain. >> i know the concept of having your balls in a vice sounds like fun, but when it's met for call, it's not fun. >> okay, yes, i know, james so, hard to be married to me. >> well, married couples here. let's just think of words that we associate with marriage. >> together. >> forever. >> monogamy. >> monotony. >> love. (laughter) >> oh my gosh! love. >> well, it means a lot for us because we've been together for five years and we really wanted to be here on the first day.